Question:

Dear CAKE,

Recently my girlfriend told me that a man at work kissed her, however she claims that she did not kiss him back.  Generally I would believe her but she has cheated on me twice in the past year and a month and I am not sure if it is time I take these events as signs that she is not to right person for me.  Next year she is going off to college four hours away from where I am at school.  What should I do? Should I end it or keep our relationship going?

Sincerely,

Travis

Answer:

Dear Travis,

Make sure to prevail through this situation with class. Be certain that you don't demonize her over this issue. Any number of scenarios are possible here, so we won't speculate and neither should you. Even if she did reciprocate, that's really ok but not pleasant for you in the least.

You've certainly gotten her side of the story by now. If the story seems intentionally incomplete she is baiting your jealousy or saving your feelings, and you should let her go now. You'll both have more time to prepare for next year.  

Good Luck,

CAKE

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